You are not alone, everyone gets hurt every once in a while. We all go through that hell of an experience where we feel lonely and tired of life!
People behave differently when they are hurt. In my experience, people try to hide it by doing stupid stuff or sometimes even acting out all cool, whichever suits them. How to know what's going on in somebody's mind. If they are okay? If they are really fine and cool(the way they look like)? Is the smile on their face REAL?!!
Life is messy if you are an overthinker, better start sleeping more and more, so you don't have to go through the rough phase of overthinking something very stupid😜. I mean if you can't control it, it's stupid.
Being hurt or hurting someone both are equally hurtful! And believe it or not, hurting someone is more hurtful of the both because in being hurt you have someone to blame for it but the guilt of hurting someone intentionally or unintentionally just keeps killing you. The pain ends ONLY when you completely know for sure that the other person has recovered.
Is it just me who has these experiences or you guys too?
Anyways, with time I have realized everyone is approximately the same, some lose their shit early some do late. But in the end, everyone tends to act out of emotions and let their emotions get the best of them. No one is perfect and we are not on a mission to become perfect, instead, we have to accept who we are and work on things that will allow us to become who we want to be. I wish best of luck to you, for it is the journey of self-awareness that will define who you really are and what will you become!😌
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